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Help from strangers is also common

Last Tuesday I was invited to the Peace Corps training center to be a panelist for a session about Harassment at Group 50’s Pre-service Training. We had a similar, helpful session during our training, so I was happy to participate as an older or sometimes called “mature” volunteer. The panel talks about all kinds of harassment – racial, sexual, gender, political, age – that a volunteer may experience during service in Namibia. We each talked about our personal experiences, techniques we use to avoid or minimize harassment, and coping skills/resources we use if we are harassed.

When I was first invited, I thought “I haven’t experienced any harassment here. What can I bring to this panel?” Over the next couple weeks, as I paid more attention and thought about it, I realized that I have dealt with harassment. I don’t believe I have to deal with it as much as some of the younger, especially female, volunteers, but it is part of my experience.

For the most part, Namibians, across all ethnic groups, are respectful of their elders, so I benefit from this. However, as an American, many Namibians assume that I am rich, so I am asked regularly by strangers and friends for money or something from the US – old phones. I got so tired of being pursued by street merchants every time I went for a walk that I finally stopped, told them that I will be here 2 years and I don’t want them following me every time I walk by. It definitely helped.

No one has asked me to have their baby like the younger PCVs, male and female, but I’ve had  men who say I should marry them and take them to America. It is laughable to me, but the younger ones get some serious harassment over this that is not to laugh off. Many young women, not just PCVs, are harassed daily with catcalls, inappropriate language and gestures. It is a male dominated culture and historically women were not allowed to demand respect. This is changing as more women are getting educated and more financially independent.

We are discouraged from talking politics, American or Namibian politics. Not true, we can talk politics, but we are discouraged from judging, from arguing or expressing strong opinions. As individuals we have our opinions, but as PCVs we are neutral. We are not to attend political rallies or demonstrations since some could associate a PCV as representing the opinion of the US government. I don’t typically think of this as harassment, but there are times when people try to engage in these conversations inappropriately.

During this visit, I also met the latest group of education volunteers in Namibia. They will swear in this week, almost exactly a year from my Group 48’s swearing in ceremony. One of their ‘mature’ volunteers served in Sierra Leone in the 80s (I think that’s right) and she ‘knew’ me through my blog. How about that! I met another young woman from Mobile, Alabama, my Mom’s birthplace, who will be coming to my town, Otjiwarongo. She will teach English at the primary school. It is always nice to meet other PCVs because we rely on each other, even if we have not met in person. It’s like “one for all and all for one”.

The pictures are from my ‘hike’ to the training center. We got a flat tire and before our driver got the jack out of the trunk, 2 cars pulled in behind us and all the men came to help. The tire was changed, and we were back on the road in 15 minutes. Such kindness.

All for now with all my love,

Ellen

Ministry of Education Schedule change

My school schedule

Today is day 5 of our 7-day cycle. It is my busiest day where I teach 7 of the 8 school periods. I have 5th period free, yay! This is the day my poor Math 11 class is with me for periods 1,2, and 3 – that is 3 consecutive periods. There are 3 Math 11 teachers and we all have the same schedule for these classes, so we schedule tests on this day when possible. We can spend the first period reviewing the topic(s) and then administer the test in periods 2-3. Today is not a test day since we had one last week. We will complete the trigonometry unit and then  the ‘Check Your Progress’ at the end of the unit. The trig unit is not very extensive, covering tangent, sine, and cosine and how they can be used to determine lengths and size of angles in right triangles.

Our term schedule changed due to upcoming national elections on Nov 27. The Ministry of Education decided they want all schools closed before then since so many are polling places.  This shifted the exam start dates by 2.5 weeks (earlier) and now we are struggling to update our lesson plans accordingly. The remaining units are not very extensive but still a lot to cover by the end of October. The other units we will cover this term are statistics, probability, transformations, and vectors. Yikes!

And that is just Math 11. I have 8th and 9th grade physical science and 8th grade computer studies to also adjust.

On a positive note, we had a rain shower yesterday and it was glorious. I can’t remember the last time it rained in Otjiwarongo. I think it has rained twice in the year I have been here but not for long, not consecutive days, and within an hour there was no evidence of it. I hope this year will be different and will put an end to the years of drought.

Here are some updated photos of my room. No major changes but a glimpse of my world.

All for now with all my love,

Ellen

My room desk, bookcase,water barrel
My kitchen prep area
My ‘dresser’ and bed with net

Do I need to call Paulina?

pretty yard on my walk yesterday

We finally had a week with no significant changes to our schedule. However, I missed some school due to being sick. I don’t feel too bad, but I developed a cold or maybe it is allergies. Lately, whatever I get seems to settle into my chest and I wind up with a lingering cough. On day 3 of our 7-day schedule, I only teach in the afternoon, so I took the morning off. I was still coughing pretty bad the next day and my principal threatened to call Peace Corps if I didn’t take care of myself. I told him I was following the medical manual, taking and doing what is recommended, I had no fever, and I sound worse than I feel. He said, “Do I need to call Paulina? (my PC supervisor) Go to the doctor or I will call her.” I called Dr. Nathan, one of our wonderful Peace Corps Medical Officers (PCMO) and after talking, he prescribed me some stronger medicine. He laughed as I told him about my principal and wished more principals were like mine.  I took the next day, Friday, off completely and have mostly rested this weekend. I AM taking care of myself. I AM very loved and supported here.

I have 2 small fruits growing on my 2 zucchini plants and lots of flowers, so I am excited. My cucumber and beets are looking good and I look forward to harvesting them. My primary goal for my garden when I started was to have lettuce, mixed greens, and fresh herbs. I’ve had my best luck with them and now I am finally having success with some other produce. I still haven’t been able to get tomato or peppers seeds to germinate but I will keep trying. I would hate to rely on my garden for sustenance, but it is fun to walk outside and snip off fresh herbs and greens.  

I went to a last minute workshop after school one day this week which was very helpful and good. The Africa Codes Week workshop is to encourage teachers to use and teach their learners how to code using a free software called Scratch. It was very timely for me because this is what we are teaching our learners in my Computer Studies class. I have taught myself a little but hadn’t found the time to really sit with it. This workshop provided all the tools I need to help my learners. Yay!

All for now with all my love,

Ellen

Ramblings & Matric Farewell

Teacher table at Matric farewell

Calm before the storm

Colorful, coordinated outfit

Not quite a tux

Some of my learners enjoying the ‘cat walk’

I love the creative outfits

I don’t know how we will complete teaching our syllabi because there seems to be a distraction every day this term. Well, maybe not every day but a couple days per week so far. One week, it was due to awards ceremonies/assemblies for academics and another day for sports. Another week, we had assemblies for talks by the Ministry of Safety about substance abuse and the dangers of driving under the influence. Another day was a motivational presentation by the Ministry of Education to encourage learners to work hard and do well for Namibia. We had an assembly to acknowledge and to protest violence towards women – this was part of a national campaign. Another day we had a longer register period, so teachers and learners could complete the census forms. All these are valid and meaningful activities, but we are lucky to get one day notice and often not even that. It is so hard to stick to a lesson plan when there are so many last-minute disruptions. There is no use in getting frustrated, mad, or stressing over it but that is easier said than done. I just do the best I can and keep learning how to adjust or wing it.

The big event for this week was Friday night’s Matric Farewell. I went to one last year for my host family’s daughter in Okahandja but could only watch them enter the event. This year, as a teacher, I was able to go inside for the dinner. This event is somewhat like our Prom, but it is a fancy dinner, not so much a dance. It is only for the graduating 12th graders and they are not allowed to bring dates from other classes or schools. The 11th graders sponsor, organize, and serve at the event with help from their class sponsor teachers. They literally put out a red carpet on a raised platform for the matriculants (graduates) to walk into the event, complete with adulation from the crowd, photographers, and loud music.

All for now with all my love,
Ellen

School Leavers Camp

Part of the homestead where we camped.

Some of the learners at the top

View from the top. It’s a hunting farm with oryx, springbok, wildebeests, and more.

Learners crammed in with gear

Every meal made here

They insisted my tent be under the awning for shade

I met young Pastor Gerson several months ago through my friend, the matrone. After getting to know me a little, he invited me to present some sessions about decision making and goal setting for his School Leavers Camp. The camp was this weekend and I had lots of fun getting to know a new group of young adults. Even better than me having fun, several of the young people told me they learned some new things from my sessions and that I gave them some things to think about. They all told me they loved me and I must see them again. I want to make that happen.

As I keep learning in Africa, nothing was what I was expecting but it all worked out anyway. Pastor Gerson said I could make a slide show since a projector would be available. I prepared one, but I also made a hardcopy of the slides and another with the slides and notes. It’s a good thing because there was no projector.

I was to be picked up Friday in a mini- van from a local private school. I was picked up, 1.5 hours late, in a bakkie (a pickup truck) that was filled with a weekend’s worth of food and gear. Somehow, we managed to pack six young adults among all the gear for a 70km ride to the Okawaka Guest Farm. I envisioned grounds like Waterberg (I camped there in March) with a dark, star-filled sky at night. The guest farm has beautiful grounds and land, but we set up our tents in the yard of Ms A. She lives in the workers homestead where there are multiple families with children and chickens running around. It was fun, but unexpected.

After the bakkie was unloaded of its people and gear, it made another 40km trip to Okakarara to pick up the remaining young adults to complete our camp of nineteen campers. While that was happening, the youth at hand started the fire and preparing dinner. They all worked together so nicely, singing, making jokes, getting it done with no complaints.

I thought it would be a group of twenty 12th graders, but there was an 8th grader, a 10th grader and an 11th grader, about eight 12th graders, and the rest are in 1-3yr programs following secondary school. Some of that group only completed 10th grade and then started their programs. I don’t understand the details, the programs are not college or university, so I assume it is along the lines of a trade school. One is doing computer technician, several are business administration, and others are agriculture. The younger ones were related to the older ones and including them was necessary for the older ones to attend. Pastor Gerson must be very flexible to reach his flock.

Throughout the weekend, if I tried to do something for myself like make a cup of tea, someone would say, “Sit Miss, I will make it for you” or if I tried to wash the mug, “Sit Miss, I want to wash it for you.” I kept trying but they kept catching me and telling me ‘Sit Miss’.

On Saturday we took a three-hour hike to the top of little Waterberg and back. It was strenuous, especially in the hot Namibian sun, but definitely worth it! Getting to the top, seeing the beauty, sharing the tough journey with others, was a very special time.

The idea from my sessions that seemed to stick the most was teaching them how to make their goals specific, measurable, and time-bound and also to write them down and to share it with someone. They really resonated with the idea that goals that are written down and shared are more likely to be achieved.

All for now with all my love,
Ellen

Term 3

First week of school is complete and I think it will be a good term. I did a little reset in that I am making them line up outside the door, quietly. If they start talking, not getting to task in a timely fashion then I make them all go back outside, be quiet, and try again. I repeat this until they know I am serious about not talking unless it is time to talk. It’s not perfect yet, but after the first week, the class is listening much better.

We also reviewed the class rules which are Three B’s: Be Respectful, Be Responsible, and Be Ready. These are very simple, but they cover most classroom behaviors. We reviewed these extensively and created consequences for them. Last term, the consequences followed the school policy of writing up transgressions with 3 earning the learner school detention. I could never tell if any of my learners served detention, so I changed the consequences this term to be more timely and in my control.

Now, if they are not respectful, to me, the class, themselves, whatever, they must write a minimum of a 100-word essay (my discretion for the length) about how they were disrespectful and how they can change their behavior. If they are not being responsible (eating in class, writing on the table, leaning in chairs, etc.), then they must clean countertops, sweep the floor, and other light classroom tasks during the break. If they are not ready (no textbook, paper, pen, homework) then it’s a waste of time so they must give up their own time with after school detention in my class. Obviously, there can be overlap in the violations such as not being ready is also not being responsible and ultimately not being respectful, but I am the teacher and have the final say!

Friday, I attended another fun event with my colleague Claudia and her family. She invited me to watch her children’s play to be performed at the “Old Age Home”, her term. It turned out to be so much fun! The home is run by the Lutheran Church and there are multiple Lutheran churches in Otjiwarongo. Claudia explained that they often use the retirement home as a site for fund raising, with the funds going to the church and to the home. Friday’s event included a lunch and a Braii (BBQ) dinner, live and recorded music, the play by the local German kindergarten, a bouncy fun house for the kids, a raffle, snacks, beer and wine throughout the day.

The short play was adorable with Claudia’s son outdoing himself as the ‘mean’ king and her younger daughter as one of the maids in waiting. The facility has a very open courtyard with a garden fountain, beautiful plantings and accessible to all. There were young and old and every age in between and it went on for hours. Claudia explained that it is difficult to transport the elders and they would have to leave early if it’s held at another location. This way, everyone can stay as little or as long as they want, and the elders help staff can enjoy it too. Simply lovely.

Heroes’ Day

A highlight of the week was Monday’s Heroes’ Day Celebration. The day commemorates the Namibian War of Independence which started on August 26, 1966. Namibia won its independence on March 21, 1990. There are Heroes’ Day celebrations all throughout the country but the main one for this year was in my town, Otjiwarongo. The celebration included the President, Prime Minister, and many other government officials. There was a military parade complete with jet flybys and parachutists with country flags attached to their ankles. There were short special performances of 10 culture groups in their ethnic dress, music, and dances. Through it all, there was live music and dancing whenever there was a transition from one speaker to another or from one activity to another.

Adding to the excitement for me was that I had gotten to know some of the ethnic performers. Sixty men stayed at our hostel and 60 women stayed at the primary school hostel next door. They were here so they could practice their performance at the venue but also there were various meetings and parties throughout the weekend. I got to know some of the performances because they would practice on our grounds and often sit around a fire, talking, and singing in the evening. They were all gone by Tuesday morning, so my focus totally shifted to school.

Much of my time this week has been researching and reviewing more classroom management techniques and lesson planning. Half the battle of classroom management is simply being prepared with engaging lesson plans. I find this very difficult since 7 of the 8 periods are a strange 37 minutes with 6th period as the exception with 44 minutes. This is not much time when it takes several minutes for the class to settle down, for me to provide the objective and leave time for a conclusion. The other challenge is not having the same classes each day. I can lecture and describe an activity for the next lesson, but it may be 2 days before I see them again and time will be needed for describing the activity again. I continue working on it and seek advice from other teachers. I am not alone with this challenge.

I reported to school Thursday and Friday and the learners start tomorrow. Reminder, this is not the start of a new school year, this is Term 3, the final term of the school year. It felt good seeing all my colleagues and finding out how my learners did on their final days of school and their final exams. I was gone longer than expected and I hoped they did the work I left them. It seems that my Math and Computer Studies classes did relatively well but many of the Physical Science learners did worse than they did the last 2 terms. This makes me sad because I realized after seeing the final exam that I did not cover all the material in the summaries and activities I provided. However, I also told them they were responsible for everything in the textbook and these were included there. I did the best I could.

All for now with all my love,

Ellen

Another visit from the USA

Sorry, faithful readers, I missed posting last week. I had a visitor from the USA, just barely a week after returning to Namibia and time got away from me. Paula, our neighbor and long-time pet sitter, told me before I left that she would visit me in Namibia. Lots of people said this, but the journey is long and expensive, so I don’t hold anyone to that statement. Paula was serious, and we had a terrific visit.

The highlight was two safari drives thru Etosha. Early in the morning, we had the unique experience of witnessing a cheetah dragging a fresh kill springbok into the bush. Another cheetah was there, and we could see the two of them working on breakfast. It is rare to see a cheetah in the wild , let alone two cheetahs feasting. Unfortunately, I don’t have a picture of this.

Another highlight of Paula’s visit was getting to know some of my new friends, especially Ananais. Ananais is a local driver and business man. He took me under his wing within the first couple months at site. I saw him regularly on my daily walks around town, and he said if I ever needed a ride to Okahandja or Windhoek to contact him. He has several cars and arranges drives to/from Windhoek almost daily. He or his driver would pick me up at the hostel and drop me off wherever needed, no need to wait at the hike point for the car to fill up and his drivers always call when on their way or if they will be delayed. This service costs a little more but it is well worth it to me. I used his service for the first time when I visited my host family in Okahandja last November. Since then, he always greets me as his friend and lets other drivers know he is watching out for me.

Ananais became our ‘personal’ driver to pick up Paula at the airport, take us around Windhoek, back to Otjiwarongo and then to/from Etosha. We invited him to have dinner with us in Windhoek and we learned more about his family (wife, Sylvia and 5 children) and businesses – he also runs a farm. Driving with him, we quickly realized that he knows people all over, he speaks all the common languages, and has many people relying on him.

He stopped in Okahandja to let Paula see and shop at the craft shops, he stopped so Paula could take photos of giraffes, baboons, warthogs, big termite mounds, and anything else of interest to us,  he showed us Himba people living in Otjo. One day, he brought along his last born, a boy in 6th grade who is struggling in Math. We arranged that I will tutor him this term. We also met his first born, a son who is manager of the Beare’s furniture store in Otjo. Best of all, he took us to his nice home in Otjiwarongo where we met his wife and one of his daughters who is a senior at my school. Now Ananais says, ‘We are family.’

Paula also got to meet and spend some time with Hermine, my friend the matron of the hostel, and my two housemates, and of course the children in my life. She got a good sense of my life here and will let everyone back in the neighborhood know that I have good support and am thriving in my new life.

All for now with all my love  

Integrated

One week ago, I was preparing to fly home to Namibia. Home, home is now Namibia. I referred to Namibia as ‘home’ countless times during my visit to the USA. Every time, it caught me by surprise because as much as I consider the USA home and as much as I enjoyed time with my family, I knew I was away. I was not home.

Peace Corps talks a lot about integrating into our community. They teach us that the more we integrate into our community, then our service will be that much more effective and enjoyable. My time away from my community in Otjiwarongo made me realize that I have fully integrated into my community. I missed matrone, I missed ‘my’ babies, I missed my teacher friends and my learners. I missed my daily walk, often with one of my housemates. I missed relaxing in my hammock and talking to folks as they walked by.

I was humbled by my housemate and hostel girls greeting me before I even got out of the car. They did not know when I would arrive, so they were keenly watching for me. They all gave me big hugs, carried my luggage to my room, saying, “Ms. Bishop, we missed you”. “We worried you would not come back”. “Miss, I am so happy you are here”. “Miss, don’t go any more”.

When my service is complete, I will return to my family and friends in the USA. I will renew my home there, but until then and forever after, Otjiwarongo, Namibia will also have a place in my heart called home.

July 1 Second Everday

Some notes about the video…Many of these are just photos not video and not necessarily in order. I didn’t take video or photos when I was with my sister, Vickie. I was able to attend Sal’s rehearsal and wedding on July 4 and 5, then I was with Vickie until she died on July 21 (the day I was supposed to return to Namibia), attended the funeral on July 26, took a road trip with my niece to see other family in Georgia, and finally back to Philadelphia to fly ‘home’ to Namibia on August 4. Oh yeah, I was treated for asthmatic bronchitis while in the USA, thus the photo of me with a nebulizer.

Vickie’s at rest. July 21, 2019

Last Monday was the beginning of a very tough week, ending with my sister’s passing early yesterday morning. Despite the sadness of witnessing Vickie’s decline, it has been a special time of joy and grace as we all cared for Vickie, sharing memories and our love for her. My brother, Eric, came over from Pittsburgh and my other brother, John, brought my Mom up from Florida this week, so along with her own family and friends, Vickie has been surrounded by love. She passed peacefully early in the morning with her two daughters at her side.

While grateful to be here, I am also aware of what I am missing back at my site. I prepared reading assignments, worksheets, textbook activities, and summaries for my learners to continue their studies in my absence. I hope and pray they worked hard since now they are writing (taking) their final exams. I also prepared marksheets for each class so my counterparts can just enter the final exam mark into a spreadsheet and along with other pre-entered assessment marks will automatically calculate the final term mark.

It will be hard to leave my family again, but I am eager to get back to my Namily and my learners. I dedicate the remainder of my Peace Corps service to my sister since she was especially excited and proud of me for pursuing this dream.

All for now with all my love